Monday, October 31, 2011

Missing Someone.


I came across this on FB and it's just so true. Between missing Max and missing my Mum, it happens so frequently to me. Some times I surprise myself as to how well I am getting on, keeping very busy is helping I must admit. Then there are other days, when I do don't do too well.
I went to a friends wedding yesterday it was a gorgeous day and a beautiful wedding. Lots of fun catching up with friends, lots of laughs and giggles like the old times. But I wish Max was sitting with me at the table enjoying the day, getting up and having a dance, laughing together, enjoying some wine. Telling me I look beautiful although I never felt it, he made sure he told me how beautiful I looked and smothered me with hugs and kisses.

Days like that are the days I miss him so much.

7 comments:

Jenny said...

That's so true. Sending you Huge hugs.

Delenn said...

That is such a wonderful comment. I know there are some people in my life that have been gone 15 years, some 6 years...doesn't matter the time--its the distance in your heart that matters.

[[Hugs]]

Gil said...

Remember Vee, Max -is- with you. I know it would be lovely to have him there in person, listening to him whisper in your ear and squeezing your hand. That wanting, that need, it never really goes away.

Somewhere in my heart, I believe he was there, happy and healthy, and whispering in your ear all the same. And it's okay to miss him; you'll always miss him. Our hearts ache for those who are no longer with us, but our hearts also know that they are no longer in pain or hurting. Blow a kiss up to heaven for Max and your Mum (and from me too) and tell them both they are badly, badly missed. Sending big hugs to you and Boo from us here.

edenland said...

Beautiful saying.

I wish he was sitting next to you too.

X

stinkb0mb said...

that saying is oh so true. sending love Vee.

~x~

Bea said...

A very true quote.

I know even when I am away from people temporarily I feel a bit of this. To have the person gone forever...

Bea

lparsons15 said...

Soooo true! Thinking of you!